Please help me find the right book
Posted: Fri Jun 05, 2009 9:53 am
Hello people... I didn't know where to post this. No boards really seem to fit.
But anyway. I have a problem here that I need help with. I want to find a a book for a girl that I don't really know. But a girl whose situation is bad. I don't know her well, but my BF does... And I always wanted to meet her.
See, she used to be this really cool person who was into art, music, alternative style... She was really nice and innocent. She was my BFs best friend for many years, and w both feel a loss now.
About 2 years ago, they fell out of contact because she became busy all of a sudden. I kept bugging my bf to meet up with her and maintain the contact, but it was sort of impossible as almost all ways of communication were non existent. She never visited her online art account anymore, and never went on her instant messenger, and wouldn't respond to his calls.
Then recently she popped on aim randomly... Completely changed.
She acted as if it didn't matter that 2 years went by, and as he asked what she'd been up to... It seems that she gave up on art, music and all that... She's... pretty much 'normal' now. She's attending some business school. The reason for all this, is something I want to keep private. But we investigated and asked some of her old friends what had happened, and get told a very sad story.. I don't wanna make it public here.
But right now, we're desperately trying to get in contact with her. At least he should speak to her, because I think he can help. But she wont let people in her life.
But now that you know the background story, I can move on to my request. I was thinking long and hard on how to deal with this case, and thought that blatantly asking her to change back will do absolutely nothing... But it is our suspicion that she'll end up in sorrow and regret if she doesn't listen to herself... But on the other hand. how do we know what is her true self?
But I was thinking that maybe they could meet up.... Talk... Catch up on each others life. But.. He should bring a gift. A book. A really good one that teaches about life and staying true to oneself. I want the book to be very epic and artistic. The thing is.. I do not know any such book, and the book world is too huge for me to go off on my own and look for one. That's why I'm asking you people.
Which book could you suggest that would wake feelings of art and all that. Maybe a fantasy book of sorts.
I'm thinking that a book is a good idea because it is private and it lets you think for yourself, unlike movies. It would make a great impression.
So.. Can anyone help me here?
But anyway. I have a problem here that I need help with. I want to find a a book for a girl that I don't really know. But a girl whose situation is bad. I don't know her well, but my BF does... And I always wanted to meet her.
See, she used to be this really cool person who was into art, music, alternative style... She was really nice and innocent. She was my BFs best friend for many years, and w both feel a loss now.
About 2 years ago, they fell out of contact because she became busy all of a sudden. I kept bugging my bf to meet up with her and maintain the contact, but it was sort of impossible as almost all ways of communication were non existent. She never visited her online art account anymore, and never went on her instant messenger, and wouldn't respond to his calls.
Then recently she popped on aim randomly... Completely changed.
She acted as if it didn't matter that 2 years went by, and as he asked what she'd been up to... It seems that she gave up on art, music and all that... She's... pretty much 'normal' now. She's attending some business school. The reason for all this, is something I want to keep private. But we investigated and asked some of her old friends what had happened, and get told a very sad story.. I don't wanna make it public here.
But right now, we're desperately trying to get in contact with her. At least he should speak to her, because I think he can help. But she wont let people in her life.
But now that you know the background story, I can move on to my request. I was thinking long and hard on how to deal with this case, and thought that blatantly asking her to change back will do absolutely nothing... But it is our suspicion that she'll end up in sorrow and regret if she doesn't listen to herself... But on the other hand. how do we know what is her true self?
But I was thinking that maybe they could meet up.... Talk... Catch up on each others life. But.. He should bring a gift. A book. A really good one that teaches about life and staying true to oneself. I want the book to be very epic and artistic. The thing is.. I do not know any such book, and the book world is too huge for me to go off on my own and look for one. That's why I'm asking you people.
Which book could you suggest that would wake feelings of art and all that. Maybe a fantasy book of sorts.
I'm thinking that a book is a good idea because it is private and it lets you think for yourself, unlike movies. It would make a great impression.
So.. Can anyone help me here?